The group that has been created to study Swedish with an emphasis on social work and civil society, jas now come a point of multiple choices. Some gilrs got work offers, some feel need to come back to Ukraine and morally support their families. It is time to reevaluate and reconsider what we want and how we go from here. One thing clear, each step is bringing one further on the road of life and development, we are happy for each one of them. Another learning is, trauma processing in a long and complex thing, a lot of awareness and understanding is needed for the involved, participants as leaders.